by dsgirl on Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:49 am
For me personally, I don't "combat" them. There are those that will deny God's existance even at the expense of the logic and science they put forth, those that start with an agenda based on prejudice and hate, and those that have a lifestyle to defend that is far more important to them than their eternal soul. These could look God in the eyes and still deny his existance. There's no point in engaging much less arguing with anyone coming from this perspective. If there was, Christ could have offered the words to convince the Pharisees that he was the Messiah they say they were waiting for.
It is one thing to defend your own faith, teach or debate those that are seeking for truth, or provide information and alternate perspectives to those who maybe haven't heard anything else other than an atheistic world view. It's another thing to engage someone who is only in it for the experience of combat and to toss insults. In many cases, it's hard to tell what someone's predisposition and agenda are. One needs to have a way to engage anyone, determine the difference between those that will debate but have a desire for the truth and those that only wish to waste your time. Christians need to be able to disengage from those that simply have no purpose other than to argue, defame, and then move on without losing credibility. For me, it starts but is not limited to their willingness to share mutual respect.
The only time I see any purpose in combating anyone is if there are others that may be influenced by their arguments. This would include those that use their position such as teacher/professor to influence those that sit under their tutelage. They have the advantages of age, education, position of authority, and the floor. I have also found that many substitute their opinion for fact or at least don't differentiate between the two. If these are not publically challenged, there are many of their students that will never realize there is another perspective.
The reality however, is that most Christians are not taught why they believe what they do other than "because the Bible tells me so" - really crummy reasoning if a person doesn't start out with an understanding of why the Bible is true. Neither do they teach people how and when to engage. Learning HOW to engage those that would debate you is very important and it starts with making them define their own terms. I've seen many challenges won right here when the person making claims against God simply can't define his own terms in a logical manner. However, if Christians only learned that THEIR faith isn't the only one that needs defending, they would be miles ahead in most cases. Non-believers make claims all the time, presented as fact. Christians argue these, but they rarely ask why someone believes them and they almost never ask how the person claiming such KNOWS what they claim is true. Ask an atheist how he KNOWS God does not exist. He can't - so haven't you just made him into an agnostic? You are already half way home.